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Beyond deep-seated feelings of patriotism and growing up in a military family, Bob Bach’s initial desire to join the military began as a young boy in the mid-1960’s. Moved by the often-glamourized scenes in movies and television shows about wartime heroes, Bob’s desire to serve his country grew more intense as he entered – and graduated – high school. At the age of 17, Bob enlisted in the Marine Corps, serving 18 months – serving 10 months overseas during the Vietnam War era.
Bob joins me today to share his experiences while serving his country through the Vietnam War era. He discusses how television and movies often glamorize the true colors of war, often leading to unrealistic expectations for young military recruits. He shares his experiences of being on patrol while under enemy fire and how coping techniques like controlling fears and anxiety played a role in surviving the Vietnam War. He also shares his experiences of returning home after serving in the military, how his expectations differed from reality, and why he felt disoriented and confused when transitioning back to civilian life.
“In order to survive in Vietnam – I had to learn how to deny reality. I needed to learn how to fool myself.” – Bob Bach
This week on the Stigma Free Vet Zone Podcast:
- How watching episodes of the 1960’s television show, Combat, piqued Bob’s desire to join the military
- Bob’s initial expectations prior to entering the military and how they compared to what he experienced once he enlisted
- His first experience of being on patrol while under enemy fire
- Why Bob felt ill-prepared for the paradoxes of war
- Denying reality, learning to numb your emotions, and controlling your fear as a coping mechanism to survive the brutality of war
- Why he began feeling betrayed after a few short months of being deployed
- What Bob’s initial expectations of returning home after the Vietnam War were like and how it differed from reality
- Why Bob felt disoriented and confused while transitioning back to civilian life after serving in Vietnam and how he coped with these feelings
- How Bob’s friends and family treated him after coming home from war
- His wife’s Bob’s transitioning back to civilian life
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DISCLAIMER: The information and content shared in each episode of the Stigma Free Vet Zone are for informational purposes only. The Stigma Free Vet Zone hosts, Mike Orban & Bob Bach, are not, nor claim to be, medical doctors, psychologists, or psychiatrists and should not be held responsible for any claims, medical advice, or therapy/treatment recommendations mentioned on this podcast. Any advice mentioned or shared by Mike Orban, Bob Bach, or their guests is strictly for purposes of bringing awareness to the veteran community and the services available. Please speak with a medical professional before taking any advice or starting any therapy or treatment discussed or shared on this podcast.